Thursday, February 12, 2009
Sailboat Blueprints Art
" This I fixed your attention, is what powers"
This sentence tells me insistently for some time: "look what they care is what grows ... "
lived with Daniel's story marked me deeply, around the end of the placement has shown me and made contact with a world hard, very hard. He has unveiled a reality unknown to me, and as you know I tried to report on this blog.
We have fulfilled our part and we are satisfied, but lately this reality, sad reality discovered, weighed me much. On one hand I felt the "moral obligation? to denounce, to publicize abuses sizes. However, I was not satisfied "what they fix your attention is power" inner voice kept repeating ...
But what to do? I kept asking myself should I keep quiet and look the other way? "Go long? and not do what I can do myself? I am so little ...
Then I began to consider the possibility of opening another blog, another blog where I talk, announce and did not report positive attitudes, the altruistic actions of many human beings by God spread around the world in ever greater numbers, what happens is that it does not sell, no noise, and I said "if I talk about the good, positive, if it fixed my attention, perhaps spreading negative, or simply decrease"
remember my dear Jorge Carvajal once said: "why fight against the shadow? we have only ourselves against the sun and the shadow will follow us inevitably ... "
Yes, I said, I will do, I will begin a new stage that will try to show the beautiful and good in the world, including my own world, but ... would not that be an underhanded way escape from reality that I do not like? thought.
A part of me longed to stop looking at all of that hard reality discovered and to which I felt powerless, and some began to feel that if I had allowed myself to contemplate all that toughness, would be by and for something.
Upon reflection, I had more clear, would not fixing my attention on all of that hard reality discovered. It would open a new blog and that does not mean "look other side. "would continue as before me, but from the consciousness and not from the feeling of helplessness. Knowing that if, if I can do more than denounce. I can serve others getting up every morning and thank life received. I can send my happy thought, grateful and positive about the universe, and He, (I like to call it God, or Father, as, but each call it as you prefer) to take you wherever you think is needed. I can offer I smile to my neighbors and loved ones, people I meet on the street, everybody. To serve and to lend my support of the thousand and one ways that life asks me, and do my best to give it, and I can on all HUG! you know all I know how much I like hugs, I have even made a blog post about them. (click here)
Hugging everyone and everything that life throw at me, what I consider good and less good. The good thing to give thanks and enjoy, and the less good to get grateful and enjoy it.
If, as a human being just propose it, things can improve. Mahatma Gandhi said it best. "Be the change you wish to see in the world"
And so I decided to open another blog, but also to not close down this. No, leave the door ajar for any eventuality, and for all who want to continue to let his words he can. Daniel, I'm sure it will, and was amazed at the same time thank you someday, all this support.
The new blog is underway, when ready I will contact you. There try to be the change I wish to see in the world back in order to fix my attention on the positive and I'll show you.
Just making this determination, I received a beautiful gift of the universe through a good friend named Elizabeth. It was this video I show you. I'm excited to see so beautiful and tender their content, but mostly because I sensed it was a kind of signal, if was right, this was the way forward.
What, beautiful right? Well now you know, I'll come to embrace. But will you let me now, leave here my special hugs from the soul, a few people that feel they could use, these are their some of their names: Laura, Teresa, Clara, Javier, Isabel, Lola, Bea, Francisco Javier Verea Argibay, Lord Chief Juvenile (sorry can not remember his name, but if your face), BegoƱa, Raul, Judge, Prosecutor, State Counsel, psychosocial team attached to the court, and how no, Patricia and Angel. All participants in the History of Daniel and who appreciate everything you've learned are true masters!
Everyone else, you who have been there to give encouragement and support, know that I embrace you today and always with gratitude, and I hope to see my new address where everyone, all will be welcomed and now, PROTECTED.
In my name, my husband's and my family, thank you, thank you all. Soon I will notify the new address.
Monday, February 2, 2009
How Much Wages For Rpht
A NEW LOOK AT THE MEMORIES
(no author)
Forgiveness is an expression of love.
Forgiveness free of restraints that embitter the soul and the body sick.
Many of our attempts to confuse forgiveness fail because essentially what we refuse to forgive and the ability to belittle the events or forgotten.
Forgiveness is not forgetting, not forgetting what happened to us.
not mean to excuse or justify a particular event or misbehavior.
not accept what happened with resignation.
not deny the pain.
not minimize the events.
does not mean you agree with what happened, nor that they approve.
Forgiveness does not mean to stop caring about what happened, or to agree with someone who hurt you.
just means putting aside those negative thoughts that caused us pain or anger.
mistakenly believe that forgiveness must lead inexorably reconciliation with the aggressor.
us believe that forgiveness is close friends of the abuser and for that reason we reject it.
does not imply that at all, forgiveness is unique to you and nobody else.
Do not expect that the person who attacked us change or modify its behavior as it is likely that this person does not change and is sometimes get even worse.
Forgiveness is based on the acceptance of what happened.
Unforgiveness binds you to people from the resentimiento.Te is chained.
Forgiveness should be performed "without expectations" without waiting for anything to happen.
If you wait for the offender to accept his error, we waiting in vain and wasting our time and energies in an apology that will never come.
If you are expecting this reaction, after being forgiven, because we do not forgive from the heart really still waiting for compensation, compensation.
We anchored in the problem, in yesterday, wanting to get paid for our pain. We have not forgiven, and whoever is in control of our lives is the EGO .
EGO that wants to punish or charge all costs to the aggressor.
There is nothing and no one can compensate the pain caused in the past, the past is not how to be changed.
Any type of revenge or retribution may correct the moments of sadness and desolation which we live, how bad we feel.
While waiting for an apology, which acknowledges its error and none of that will change the facts, what happened in the past, we only want to feed our ego, our thirst for justice misplaced.
Unforgiveness is the poison more destructive to the spirit as it neutralizes the emotional resources you have.
Forgiveness is a statement we can and must renew daily.
often the most important person to have to forgive is yourself for all the things that were not the way you thought.
Forgiving from our hearts, we look at the facts as they happened and then decided to let them go, let the ayer.Aceptamos we APPRENTICES!
That lesson is already learned and we've managed to overcome the negative circumstances that we played live.
right so you can be perdonado.Recuerda that the rod you measure, you will be measured ...
(no author)
some time ago that this beautiful text came to me and touched my heart deeply.
Today I decide to bring it to my blog to tell all those involved in the story of Daniel, all that from the biased truth, lies, knowledge, ignorance, the word , silence, action or omission, have allowed the end of the placement was as it was, no adjustment period to avoid gratuitous suffering to Daniel, that I forgive, I forgive you, if each and every one of you. It is true, forgive, but as beautiful text says, not forget.
We have no power, we are not socially relevant, nor necessary for us to do. We are humble and simple, and you all know the truth of what happened, like us, that, ever, neither the power nor the personal importance may erase ...
not need to give us the reason neither public nor in private, because they are not your responsibility to give it to us, because as Gandhi said: "The key to happiness lies in the reverence for the Truth , who is the giver of all things. "
Perhaps our presence as unobtrusive and silent bothered. Perhaps our transparency and integrity do not like, and perhaps because, as we see, we do not salute and bow their heads ... Our integrity allows us to look straight in the eyes, and go with head held high.
While God permits, will be those "inconvenient witnesses" that you vainly try to discredit. You know? we do not care if they do, because within us we know who we are and you also know ... and that friends, only God can change ...
Everyone has to live with oneself, that self sooner or later must be faced and accountable ...
Regarding Daniel, when I look, look in the mirror, we say with pride and satisfaction: "You did right, right, YOUR PARTY." That, gentlemen, no power, or enough money to pay for it.
We can only say that we forgive, yes, but ... Will the biological parents of Daniel and Daniel do the same? Can they? For their sake I hope so.
And as for you, and how I feel generous today, in addition to forgiveness, we present this beautiful text that I hope you like and serve them ...
"When you grow, you will discover that it defended lies,
you played yourself or suffered for foolishness.
Are you a good fighter, do not blame him,
but not let your mistakes be repeated. "
(Paulo Coelho) )
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