MY MOTHER "HAS ALWAYS DONE WELL" and NACE AS A ASSUME A PARADIGM
few days ago I heard some people who were talking, two of them, defended the validity of his position by saying "we've always done it".
Another of those present, said to be upset for having doubted his "know or not know" do their job.
The first two I would say that they see the video below, and invite them to reflect ... For the third, remember that as Confucius said: " THE WISE KNOW THAT IGNORES "
For everyone else, I leave this thought:
Do you know how old things are "always did well" and thank God have changed, no longer always be so? Suffice
example, denial of the rights of women, we had no voice!
The surgeries without anesthesia, you put alcohol to the ears and a stick between the teeth and crack! The supremacy of man over his wife, which allowed if it was "necessary" use of force, bone, grind it to death, and not to mention cultures still frown ablacción clitoris the girls, or married off, girls, with the elderly ... "We've always done it"
ALWAYS BEEN DONE SO excuse "for not trying to make things better? What would we humans get caught in that "so long? Have not we evolved?
of being prisoners in the "we've always done it", it would be impossible to evolve as we would close to everything new, all possibility of change.
And the same goes for the "know or not know" to do our work when we believe we know everything, and we get upset when someone warns that it might not, do not know everything, are not we closing to new possibilities ? "Other ways to make? "To dare to go in other directions? Total already know everything!
somewhat logical would bother to doubt our "intent" when doing a job, but ... Did we know? Does it hurt because it shows other ways, other possibilities?
What would those accounting old who could add, do arithmetic with a huge impressive skill, whether it was closed to new knowledge of calculators and computers?
only admits to not knowing which is open to new and may evolve. Only if we dare to the new we can leave behind the "we've always done it" that have so damaged and hurt humanity.
Times change, man evolves, and we can not keep certain "HAS ALWAYS DONE WELL" Do not you think?
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Saturday, October 25, 2008
Cheerleader In Kneesock
, THANKS, AND THE EAGLES
Suppose
Suppose :
Suppose all know who I turn right? suppose you know that I speak to you if, as you, ah chsssss, chssss, chssss to you too! Huh? Well, we all assume we know what if?
Suppose we know why they do this. Suppose that because they know we know things, many things and assume that you do not care that I or anyone know ... Posts
suppose, suppose you have power, enough power and do not say much because they know that in life there is always someone who has more of everything, including power.
Suppose that a power of attorney allows them to use, manipulate, distort ...
based Suppose that power, you think they can hide, delete, silent ... and in a sense it is.
I will continue to assume, suppose that, despite all their efforts and power, we have not been canceled, or silent, or covered, do not have enough power for that ....
Suppose we also have power, if, for example: the power of patience, that as the Saint of Avila said "nothing disturb you, nothing frighten you, patience achieves everything ..." or that I think that other than Buddhist, "you just have to sit at the door of your house and see the corpse spend your enemy "of freedom , yes, we are free because we want nothing of you, none can offer do you remember? if you, as all we want, we have nothing to lose; of curiosity, allows us to learn, investigate, investigate ...; the time, that if you have to admit this is a great power, they all complain about their lack! "and know that we will use the time? as together with the curiosity and patience to observe, explore, learn ... and then acquire another power, the knowledge ! know more, know more.
Suppose in your course claim void, silence, cover, weakening ... get the opposite effect, strengthening!
I have a friend who says that life can go two ways: either as victims with everything that entails a negative charge, or as apprentices. I swear I can not stand the role of victim, I am an apprentice cream, all experienced has given me great knowledge, everything I've learned, and I must tell you that much more of the less pleasant events that the pleasant, so I I feel for you, but no, it is weakened by their actions, make us strong!
Suppose then that you have contributed greatly to strengthen us in body, mind and spirit and therefore we have no sense to you that gratitude, yes, gentlemen we are very grateful for your contribution, thank you, we feel stronger, more capable, more humane, more dignified and above all integrity.
GENTLEMEN THANKS AND GOD BLESS!
Ah! Gift them the text of the eagles
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THE EAGLES
Someone who loves me and whom I a deep respect and admiration as well as love, sent me this text on the eagles, which I find very appropriate for the occasion.
"The eagle is the bird that has the greatest longevity of their species. He comes to live 70 years.
But to reach that age, forty years Life has to make a decision.
At forty years: Her nails curved and flexible, fail to catch prey on which it feeds.
His long and pointed beak, also curves.
Pointing to his chest are the wings, aged and heavy with the thick feathers.
Flying is now very difficult!
Then the eagle, has two options: die, ... or face a painful process of renewal that will last 150 days.
This process is to fly to the top of a mountain refuge in a nest near a wall where they do not need to fly.
Then, just found this place, the eagle starts to hit its peak the wall until wrest.
just starts it must wait for the birth of a new peak which then will pull out their old nails.
When new nails begin to birth, continues pulling their old feathers.
And after five months, is victorious for his famous flight of renewal and revival, and then has ... thirty years. "
"Sometimes we wonder why renew?
In our lives, many times, we must protect ourselves for some time and begin a process of renewal.
For resume flight victorious, we must break off ties, customs and other traditions of the past.
Only free weight of the past, we can take advantage of the valuable result of a ...
"Renewal"
Thursday, October 23, 2008
How Dangerous Are Steriod Creams On Babies
Today is the big day
Dear Daniel today is the big day, so your rights and dignity will be upheld in court.
We regret not being able to avoid everything that you had to suffer, but at least all this will help convince other kids that does not happen to you.
trust in justice, we trust ...
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Orfalís People: You can cover the drum, you can loosen the strings of the lyre, but, who prevent the sky lark sing?
- Gibran Khalil Gibran-
(Internet photo)
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
New Remington 870 Modular Combat Shotgunfor Sale
WHY WE DO IT?
every morning while taking breakfast, take the opportunity to put my thoughts in order and reflect on some issues that concerned me. Today I reflected on all this that we are living with Daniel.
Throughout this journey, from the moment we decided to be Family Cozy, almost no one has understood. They did not understand when we decided to host, "you're crazy, when you leave the child as" going "to suffer," they said.
We now understand after he left us to report alleged irregularities and forms used in the termination of the placement., "Do not know against whom you fight, you're not going to get anything," said
My thoughts as he took my cafelito was: what they do not really understand? What someone in this case we can do something for no reason, for nothing? for nothing tangible, material, of course. First
why you see a child who is going to go? now why complaints if you want to stay with the child?.
Everyone, including the official establishment, I can not believe we do this because yes, of consciousness. I can not believe that behind it does not hide the desire to stay with the child, we returned to the child ... But I wonder in relation to the official establishment would you not believe our position or so they believe it should divert attention from the main theme? Do the alleged irregularities?
Are we so "touched" humans who only move by personal and selfish interests? Are we?
for us to me, is very simple and I think I explained very clearly: the same, the same feeling and not another, is what moves me to denounce the alleged irregularities in the case of Daniel, that I took part in the project Foster Care: helping, collaborate, contribute my two cents, giving a part of me so that others are at least a little happier.
My greatest asset is myself, and of this I, of myself.
When I got to be welcoming, did not know Daniel, I lent it to help in this case "children with difficulties" in general.
denounce Now, our report little or nothing can bring and to Daniel, he and you have been injured, hurt for their "ignorant" way to proceed, but we are confident that this report will help others who come after. That is our demand, which as far as possible not do this again to other children.
Like when Daniel was ask, beg, plead, he was given the opportunity to leave with dignity, with the period of adaptation to human rights by law and intended for them, and were not heard, also denounced now, and really not whether we will be heard.
Why? because among other things will not fit on the head that do this for nothing personal, of any interest or gain.
To those who think this way turn this question: what happens gentlemen, you just move on interest? if so, do not worry, everyone is free to be and act in the best created and wants, I believe them, accept them, even I can understand them but not share, but ... Would it be too much to ask to make an effort and try to see, accept, believe that, thank God, yes, if there in this crazy world, many people that if we do things because if, because it dictates to us our consciousness, our heart, our being, a way of walking through life like that? Could you make that small effort?
Again, the same feeling that led us to enter the Foster Care program Family is what brings us now to report. Awareness is a matter of conscience, nothing more.
every morning while taking breakfast, take the opportunity to put my thoughts in order and reflect on some issues that concerned me. Today I reflected on all this that we are living with Daniel.
Throughout this journey, from the moment we decided to be Family Cozy, almost no one has understood. They did not understand when we decided to host, "you're crazy, when you leave the child as" going "to suffer," they said.
We now understand after he left us to report alleged irregularities and forms used in the termination of the placement., "Do not know against whom you fight, you're not going to get anything," said
My thoughts as he took my cafelito was: what they do not really understand? What someone in this case we can do something for no reason, for nothing? for nothing tangible, material, of course. First
why you see a child who is going to go? now why complaints if you want to stay with the child?.
Everyone, including the official establishment, I can not believe we do this because yes, of consciousness. I can not believe that behind it does not hide the desire to stay with the child, we returned to the child ... But I wonder in relation to the official establishment would you not believe our position or so they believe it should divert attention from the main theme? Do the alleged irregularities?
Are we so "touched" humans who only move by personal and selfish interests? Are we?
for us to me, is very simple and I think I explained very clearly: the same, the same feeling and not another, is what moves me to denounce the alleged irregularities in the case of Daniel, that I took part in the project Foster Care: helping, collaborate, contribute my two cents, giving a part of me so that others are at least a little happier.
My greatest asset is myself, and of this I, of myself.
When I got to be welcoming, did not know Daniel, I lent it to help in this case "children with difficulties" in general.
denounce Now, our report little or nothing can bring and to Daniel, he and you have been injured, hurt for their "ignorant" way to proceed, but we are confident that this report will help others who come after. That is our demand, which as far as possible not do this again to other children.
Like when Daniel was ask, beg, plead, he was given the opportunity to leave with dignity, with the period of adaptation to human rights by law and intended for them, and were not heard, also denounced now, and really not whether we will be heard.
Why? because among other things will not fit on the head that do this for nothing personal, of any interest or gain.
To those who think this way turn this question: what happens gentlemen, you just move on interest? if so, do not worry, everyone is free to be and act in the best created and wants, I believe them, accept them, even I can understand them but not share, but ... Would it be too much to ask to make an effort and try to see, accept, believe that, thank God, yes, if there in this crazy world, many people that if we do things because if, because it dictates to us our consciousness, our heart, our being, a way of walking through life like that? Could you make that small effort?
Again, the same feeling that led us to enter the Foster Care program Family is what brings us now to report. Awareness is a matter of conscience, nothing more.
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First they took the black, but
I did not mind my
because I was not.
Then they took the Jews,
but I did not care,
because I was neither.
After the priests were arrested,
but since I'm not religious,
not bother me.
then arrested a few communists,
but since I am not a communist,
not bother me.
Now take me to my
but it is too late.
-Bertold Brecht-
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
How Much Do Put In A Wedding Card
Open Letter to M ª Jesús Lago, Xeral Secretary of Welfare of the Xunta de Galicia
Ms. M ª Jesús Lago, Chus, although a little late, (September 28, 2008), yesterday I read an article in the newspaper La Voz Galicia where they interview you, and the first paragraph says or so (I include the article): "Chus Lago, Xeral Secretary of Welfare of the Xunta, believes that adoptions are the last resort of the social network of assistance to children and advocates other ways, such as foster care .
¿...? ¿...? ¿...?
So I've been Mrs. M ª Jesús Lago, Chus, after reading this. I guess as a good professional should be, is aware of everything that happens in "business" in this case in the department of Welfare of the Secretary Xeral is it true? So if I'm not mistaken you know everything about the "if Daniel" and the circumstances, sad circumstances in which foster care was closed down right?
What do you think M ª Jesús Lago, this is how they intend to carry out the family welcomed? Do you think a child, a child who has lived from four months of age up to eighteen (year and a half) in a host family is well, is in the "greater good of the child" require leave it in an office of the Regional Government, to give it up for adoption (Traditional guess) without a prior period adjustment?
Are you a mother M ª Jesús, Chus Lago? if so do you remember how their children at eighteen months, year and a half? Do you remember if they liked to be left with strangers never seen them? "Would you leave your children a year and half with strangers in completely new and strange environment for them, even for a good cause? "Maria Jesus would do? If not, or not a mother, ask, ask around other mothers, to yours, your sisters, your friends, colleagues ...
Why is M ª Jesús Lago, I can not believe, you trust politicians? Is it because they say one thing but do another?
And at the International Congress of Families will welcome you in Santiago de Compostela this month, talk about what happens to children like Daniel when they interrupt the reception of a sudden and traumatic? Talk about it "M ª Jesús Lago? How much representation in the Congress will, of families like ours with a bad experience in the host? I think we are enough, and I think if you really intend to ensure the "greater good of the child" should be heard, do not you think? more anything not to repeat that, "nonsense? or improve quality or is it true what they say to those places only carry those all say amen, amen?
M ª Jesús Lago, Secretary Xeral of Welfare, you say that advocates for other formulas such as the placement before the adoptions, as a resource to assist children, I do not know if this is good or not , I believe you, you, believe it, which is good for children, but ... Do you know what I advocate? Advocate for greater clarity and transparency in the management of foster care, adoptions and other actions that decide to adopt the unprotected children plead for a more just and humane treatment than that received by Daniel.
As you said the psychiatrist Karl A. Menniger "What they give to children, children give to society "
M ª Jesús Lago Ah! Do you know why the picture of the cornfield? it is a symbol of our struggle. We are aware of our smallness in this struggle, we are, but we know "seed" good seed, and like the cornfield about a small seed that produces the good fruit and also offers a way of protecting shadow and seed our struggle for the rights of children in care, vulnerable, will bear fruit, will give welcome shade-protective. Our small "seed" will give a tree full of fruit. We are the first but not the last!
http://www.lavozdegalicia.es/sociedad/2008/09/28/0003_7177327.htm
http://www.lavozdegalicia.es/sociedad/2008/09/28/0003_7177327.htm
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