Forgiveness is an expression of love.
Forgiveness free of restraints that embitter the soul and the body sick.
Many of our attempts to confuse forgiveness fail because essentially what we refuse to forgive and the ability to belittle the events or forgotten.
Forgiveness is not forgetting, not forgetting what happened to us.
not mean to excuse or justify a particular event or misbehavior.
not accept what happened with resignation.
not deny the pain.
not minimize the events.
does not mean you agree with what happened, nor that they approve.
Forgiveness does not mean to stop caring about what happened, or to agree with someone who hurt you.
just means putting aside those negative thoughts that caused us pain or anger.
mistakenly believe that forgiveness must lead inexorably reconciliation with the aggressor.
us believe that forgiveness is close friends of the abuser and for that reason we reject it.
does not imply that at all, forgiveness is unique to you and nobody else.
Do not expect that the person who attacked us change or modify its behavior as it is likely that this person does not change and is sometimes get even worse.
Forgiveness is based on the acceptance of what happened.
Unforgiveness binds you to people from the resentimiento.Te is chained.
Forgiveness should be performed "without expectations" without waiting for anything to happen.
If you wait for the offender to accept his error, we waiting in vain and wasting our time and energies in an apology that will never come.
If you are expecting this reaction, after being forgiven, because we do not forgive from the heart really still waiting for compensation, compensation.
We anchored in the problem, in yesterday, wanting to get paid for our pain. We have not forgiven, and whoever is in control of our lives is the EGO .
EGO that wants to punish or charge all costs to the aggressor.
There is nothing and no one can compensate the pain caused in the past, the past is not how to be changed.
Any type of revenge or retribution may correct the moments of sadness and desolation which we live, how bad we feel.
While waiting for an apology, which acknowledges its error and none of that will change the facts, what happened in the past, we only want to feed our ego, our thirst for justice misplaced.
Unforgiveness is the poison more destructive to the spirit as it neutralizes the emotional resources you have.
Forgiveness is a statement we can and must renew daily.
often the most important person to have to forgive is yourself for all the things that were not the way you thought.
Forgiving from our hearts, we look at the facts as they happened and then decided to let them go, let the ayer.Aceptamos we APPRENTICES!
That lesson is already learned and we've managed to overcome the negative circumstances that we played live.
right so you can be perdonado.Recuerda that the rod you measure, you will be measured ...
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some time ago that this beautiful text came to me and touched my heart deeply.
Today I decide to bring it to my blog to tell all those involved in the story of Daniel, all that from the biased truth, lies, knowledge, ignorance, the word , silence, action or omission, have allowed the end of the placement was as it was, no adjustment period to avoid gratuitous suffering to Daniel, that I forgive, I forgive you, if each and every one of you. It is true, forgive, but as beautiful text says, not forget.
We have no power, we are not socially relevant, nor necessary for us to do. We are humble and simple, and you all know the truth of what happened, like us, that, ever, neither the power nor the personal importance may erase ...
not need to give us the reason neither public nor in private, because they are not your responsibility to give it to us, because as Gandhi said: "The key to happiness lies in the reverence for the Truth , who is the giver of all things. "
Perhaps our presence as unobtrusive and silent bothered. Perhaps our transparency and integrity do not like, and perhaps because, as we see, we do not salute and bow their heads ... Our integrity allows us to look straight in the eyes, and go with head held high.
While God permits, will be those "inconvenient witnesses" that you vainly try to discredit. You know? we do not care if they do, because within us we know who we are and you also know ... and that friends, only God can change ...
Everyone has to live with oneself, that self sooner or later must be faced and accountable ...
Regarding Daniel, when I look, look in the mirror, we say with pride and satisfaction: "You did right, right, YOUR PARTY." That, gentlemen, no power, or enough money to pay for it.
We can only say that we forgive, yes, but ... Will the biological parents of Daniel and Daniel do the same? Can they? For their sake I hope so.
And as for you, and how I feel generous today, in addition to forgiveness, we present this beautiful text that I hope you like and serve them ...
"When you grow, you will discover that it defended lies,
you played yourself or suffered for foolishness.
Are you a good fighter, do not blame him,
but not let your mistakes be repeated. "
(Paulo Coelho) )
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